Can Subliminal Persuasions Save Your Marriage: 

--THE RADIO TRICK THAT WORKED TO SAVE A MARRIAGE

By Michael Allen, Author of : Reclaim Your Marriage And Stop Your Divorce   
Website:    www.stop-divorce.net/

I have put down many techniques in my book that you can use to stop your divorce.   Here's one that may give you and your spouse a pause in your divorce.

In all my years as a marriage counselor, I think this is one of the most unusual stories I have ever heard. I wish I could take credit for this one, but I have to give all the credit to this one particular and amazing wife, who found an unbelievable way to get her husband to stop sleeping with other women.  I have this couple.s

permission to use their story, but I have changed the names here at their request to respect their privacy.  But all else is 100 percent true!  This is the story of how one enterprising wife used an ordinary radio to stop her husband from straying.  Read on!

 Marla had just about given up on her husband, Samuel.  He was a wonderful man --handsome, wealthy and highly intelligent. He was a college psychology professor at a major university.  But Samuel had one crippling flaw: he was a cheater. 

 Every day, Samuel went off to work to teach graduate students at the university where he worked, and many of them were beautiful, young, single women.  For a student, to hero-worship a favorite professor is very common. The trouble with Samuel was that, when a lovely 22-year-old coed came on to him, he could rarely refuse their attentions.  For a man who was as brilliant as Samuel, he was a total idiot when it came to hiding his cheating with young women.  Marla had caught on to him almost a half-dozen times, and she was about at the end of her rope.

 Every time Marla confronted Samuel about one of his affairs with a beautiful, younger woman, Samuel immediately admitted it, started to cry, and begged for forgiveness. He also promised never to do it again -- and he was sincere -- but he was also very weak.  Because of his obvious sincerity, Marla was able to forgive him again and again, always giving him another chance. She also loved him very much, despite all. Samuel would swear off other women for a while, but his job was a constant supply of temptation.  With so many young, pretty women surrounding him all day, his weakness sooner or later got the better of him.

 Marla and Samuel were caught up in an ugly pattern.  Cheat, get caught; beg for forgiveness, forgiveness and then repeat.

 They tried marriage counseling, but it did little good. There was really nothing much to talk about in counseling except Samuel's cheating, and both Samuel and Marla agreed that he should quit.  It's just that he couldn't. He was too weak -- at least that's what he said.

 One day while feeling very depressed and desperate to salvage her marriage, Marla happened to pick up one of Samuel's numerous books on psychology.  She happened to start reading about something called subliminal persuasion.

 Subliminal persuasion is the use of hidden messages in pictures, music or movies to influence the behavior of a person, or groups of people.  For example, a recording of a Mozart symphony can be interlaced with a voice speaking a certain word or phrase.  The voice will not be loud enough to be heard consciously over the music.  When a person listens to the music, all they will hear is music -- but their subconscious mind will be able to pick up subtle, hidden messages recorded along with the music at very low volume.

 The way it works is this:  While the conscious mind is preoccupied with the primary music, the hidden recording will seep into the subconscious mind of the individual.  And depending on what that message is, it can have a tremendous influence on the behavior of the individual.

 Subliminal persuasion is so powerful; it is illegal to use it in advertising.  Before it was made illegal, some grocery stores, for example, used to lace the music played on their public address systems with hidden subliminal message that said something like:  You're very hungry, buy more food ... you're very hungry, buy more food ... you're very hungry, buy more food ...Ó

 The unsuspecting shoppers could consciously hear only music as they shopped, but the subliminal messages seeped directly into their inner minds, and as a result, they bought more food than they had planned, or wanted to buy. 

 The reason subliminal persuasion works is this:  The subconscious mind exerts a great influence over how people think, act and behave.  When hidden subliminal messages are fed to the subconscious mind, they penetrate directly to the person's greater personality and influence how they think and act without them knowing it.  That's why it's illegal in advertising. It's considered unfair and deceptive.

 But subliminal persuasion is also used as a powerful self-improvement tool.  Many people have used subliminal recordings to stop smoking, lose weight, improve their work habits, and more.

 Reading about all this, Marla got a fantastic idea.  Would subliminal persuasion work on her husband's cheating problem?  She immediately thought: What have I got to lose? I've tried everything else.  I might as well try this. The only other option is divorce, and I don't want that!  I just want my marriage to work

 But Marla immediately saw a problem in her plan.  Where would she find a subliminal recording that would stop a cheating husband!  She searched the market and found subliminal tapes for everything from defeating depression to weight loss, but nothing to defeat a cheating husband. 

 But Marla was not ready to give up that easily.  She had an idea.  Maybe she could make her own subliminal recording designed to achieve exactly what she wanted to achieve.  Fortunately, Marla knew a lot of other people that worked at the university where her husband was a professor.  She contacted Bill R., who worked in the communications department.  Bill was a wizard with electronic recording devices.  Marla asked Bill if it was possible for him to make a series of subliminal recordings, made to order for her Especial project  Bill said he could handle the job easily.

 Now, Marla knew that Samuel was in the habit of listening to classical music while in his office at the university. So Marla had Bill record about a dozen tapes of Samuel's favorite composers.  For the subliminal messages, Marla used her own voice.  This is what she recorded on the underside of the music:  ÒI love my wife ... I will always be faithful to her, no matter what ... I love my wife, I will never hurt her again ... I will always be faithful to Marla ... I will always be faithful to Marla ... I get everything I need from Marla ...

 And so on.  Once Marla had her battery of subliminal tapes ready to go, she was ready to unleash the power of subliminal persuasion on her hapless, unsuspecting husband.  For his next birthday, Samuel got a present from his wife he was delighted with -- a series of long-play tapes of his favorite classical music!  He gladly accepted them and dutifully brought them to his office, where he played them constantly whenever he was there for hours at a time, grading papers, doing research and all the rest.

 Marla also made copies for herself so that she could play them at home.  Whenever Samuel was home, Marla had the radio going -- but on it were her subliminal recordings, pulsating with hidden messages to get her husband to stop cheating, and be faithful to her.

 Did it work?  Here is what happened in Marla's words:

 When I first came up with the idea to reprogram my husband's mind with subliminal tapes, I was 100 percent convinced that I was just a desperate fool grasping at straws.  But that was five years ago -- and the last five years of my marriage have been the happiest of my life!  The change that came over Samuel was really just unbelievable.  He not only completely stopped his cheating; he started to become so attentive and interested in me -- sexually and otherwise -- that I could barely keep up with him!  How did I know he had stopped cheating?  Because he started to talk about it all the time.  One day he came home to me an announced he wanted to talk about his Problem Sam told me that for the past six months, he had suddenly lost all interest in cheating, and he simply couldn't understand why he ever used to act that way.  For a long while, he continued to talk about his old ways, until I finally said to him:  Look, honey, you made some mistakes in the past, but I can just tell you're over it now. You're not the same person anymore.  Lets just go on with our marriage and forget the past.  I'm only interested in the kind of person and husband you are today, and you're the very best.

 Upon hearing this, Marla said Samuel broke down and cried.  They hugged, and a few minutes later, they were both laughing.  They never spoke about his cheating again -- it was old news, and Samuel was a changed man.

 So that's the story, and I guarantee you, it really happened!  I think it's an amazing story, although I must say that some psychologists claim that subliminal messages have not shown to be truly effective on persuading people to take actions they wouldn't otherwise take.

 That may be true, but I think what's key here is that Marla's husband really did want to change -- he just couldn't find the strength to do it.  I think it's very possible that Marla's subliminal tapes gave him that extra push he needed to change in the way he really wanted to, deep down inside.  Also, you cannot argue with success!  Whether it was the subliminal tapes that fixed this marriage, or something else, the facts speak for themselves.  This is one marriage that was headed for a sure end, that ended up just the opposite -- a super happy, loving, faithful marriage!

 Michael Allen, Relationship Expert, describes techniques to stopping your divorce and saving your marriage. 
His website:

http://www.stop-divorce.net/